Anonymous: Today was the first day of the school and I saw my bf with his friends. I wanted to say hi to him and give him a hug but I was scared :/ I waited for him to say hi to me. In sports class he said hi to me and I felt awkward. When he said hi, i felt like we're just broke up and nothing happened between him and I. After school, I waited for him to hug me before he go home but he didn't. I think I should break up with him but I still love him. (i'm the anon who went to bf's house)
it sounds like he does not feel the same about you as before, and what you guys have now is no longer as special. Breaking up would probably be the best idea. Feel free to talk to him to clear things up though. Staying friends without feeling awkward at first is a long shot, but it is possible. Good luck x.
Anonymous: How can I show my bf that I love him without saying?
Haha, it is sad that us humans sometimes are more sensitive to words, than actions. You can show him you love him by giving him hugs, kisses. Smile at him a lot (so he knows he makes you happy). You can also make small gifts for him. And this sounds like common sense, but be nice and caring. But, I do think it is a good idea if you say it once in a while so he knows for sure, just in case he’s insecure? (: xx.
Anonymous: I think I might ask him about it. Should I talk to him face to face or fb? What should I say to him?? I really don't know what I did wrong. I know there are many guys that are perfect for me but right i'm in love with him. I really don't know what to do?
Face to face would be better because he can’t avoid your questions. but I think fb is easier. Like I said, no one knows what you did wrong, and maybe you didn’t do anythng wrong, feelings is a tricky thing. You may think he’s the one for you but he doesn’t seem to think so. So then why hurt yourself trying to get him back? Anyway I hope things go smoothly with your talk, and I hope you will find a resolution to your feelings. (: gluck xx
Anonymous: I'm the anon who went to my bf's house. Few days after I went to his house, he have been acting weird like he doesn't like me anymore :/ Whenever I hug him, he doesn't hug me like he used to. He doesn't hug me properly. I feel like he doesn't care about me. It was the last day of the school and after we hugged he said "see you after the holidays" and he wasn't even looking at me. I don't know what I did wrong.
This won’t sound good but you’re right about him losing feelings for you. You can take that fact and stop talking to him to avoid getting hurt any further, or you could confront him and ask him what is wrong. Chances are even if you ask him it will not change his feelings or make things better. But, if you need that “closure”, then go ahead and ask him why. Just be strong, this isn’t the end and you will find better guys who are more suitable for you darling. xoxo
Anonymous: how come you don't answer?
sorry sorry! i have been so busy with school/work/everything. I will try my best to reply quickly! xoxo
Anonymous: I went to my bf's house and I had my first kiss. I really love him so much and I don't want to loose him. When we were cuddling in his bed, I wanted to be with him forever. This is the second time that i'm dating him. I always wonder why he ask me out. Do you know why? I'm leaving soon and I'm scared about long distance relationship. I might not see him for a year. I don't want to break up with him just because of the distance :/
haha i’m happy for you hun. He asked you out because he likes you, whether its your looks or your personality. A lot of times you don’t need a reason to like somebody, so don’t ever doubt yourself, just know that you’re worth liking (: Long distance relationships are not easy to manage, but not impossible, if you both feel the same way about each other then you can make it last! If, however it does not work out in the end, don’t be upset or discouraged, you will meet other special people later on! have faith and good luck (:
Anonymous: We tried to meet after school but we are too busy with after school activities. I hugged him this morning and it made me feel better. I always go home at 9 pm and he's usually in bed so I can't talk to him. I love him so much and I know he loves me. My best friends are in different class and his best friends are also in different class so we also don't see our best friends :(
aw honey, things will work out if you want it to, believe me! if you’re always looking for reasons that’s keeping you guys apart, then you aren’t trying hard enough. if you want to see him, no excuses you can make it happen, plan ahead! (: Even if you won’t see him for long. good luck!
Anonymous: I think I have a crush on my boyfriend's best friend... What should I do?
ahh, that’s a troublesome one. Crushes aren’t always real and they might go away easily, us humans just want things we can’t/don’t have, so figure out if your feelings for him are real, or whether they are MORE real than what you have for your boyfriend. Also, is his bestfriend also interested in you too? or is it onesided? If you realize that you really really like his friend, to a point where you no longer have feelings for your current boyfriend, then you should end the relationship because it is pointless. Like I said, if it is just infatuation, it will go away and you won’t need to do anything about it. Just wait, and let time tell you how you feel. (: gluck xx
Anonymous: my bf and i are in different class and we barely don't see each other. We are always with friends. We talked about it and we tried to fix this problem but we don't know how. I'm always busy on the weekend and we only talk on fb and I don't think that would be good enough.I'm leaving in 3 months and I want to do something with him. I'm going to his house next week but I don't think that would solve our problem. What can we do?
If you are both so busy during school, then why not meet up after school for a bit? if you really wanted see each other, then you will make time, so it’s about whether you’re willing to. talking on the phone is also more intimate than facebook msgs, and definitely going to his house will help, do that more often! spend quality time with just the two of you! and you guys can go from there, let me know how it goes, gluck! xx
Anonymous: Do you think having sex at the age of 14 is ok?
Personally I do think sex at 14 is a little early. I’m not saying it because society doesn’t accept it, but because when you get older and look back, you might wish that you held your virginity longer for the right person. As long as you live with no regrets, nothing should tie you down, however, give it a second thought, don’t lose it because you’re pressured into it. <3 xx
